somehow.
a space to live is a MUST in life. you cant control someones life unless they let u. but you shouldnt. i mean. its bad. instead of controlling ur own life u go bossing around people's life telling them what to do and what NOT to do. dude. mind your own business.

if they were ur family. don't tell them what not to do. at times. they know whats best for themselves. unless they're doing something wrong. if not. give them a space to live in.

if they were ur partner or loved one. insecurity happens all the time. if they love u. they know wat to do. simple as that. so controlling their life wouldn't make them any happier or shall i say loved. i DO know that there are times u'd get jealous of them hanging with they're friends and all. but yeah. they already dedicated half their life to you. the other half is the space for them to live in. if they dun get that space there wouldnt be anything else in their life besides you. right?sooo~~ if u toook my so-called advice and it turns out to be a bad ending, means they don't love u. so let them go screw themselves and move on, there's more to life then sobering over some shit. shit happens.

if they were ur friends. even between friends and friends, one would try and control the others life. its like. ur best fren is busy with another best fren and u feel left out or forgotten. dude. best friends will not forget each other. thats why they're called best friends!! you just gotta learn how to share. you cant have someone all to urself. .u don't OWN them. friends aren't pets. they're PEOPLE with feelings and people that are supposed to understand you. let them know how you feel, thats the best way of solving things. =)


i feel like a whole different person today.
its a good thing.XD.
oh.! and rocky balboa is in PJ! ahhaahhahaah.